Most people spend their lives judging other people. When they could be ignoring them and creating their life instead…
We are herd creatures and some idiot came up with this originally, others copied and now we have all been programmed this way…
Plus our egos love it when we judge other people because we are not doing anything productive…
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In today’s Footstep, I have for you another video taken randomly from my Success Made Simple course.
This video covers how our natural way is like nature…
Nature allows others to be as they choose to be… Humans have decided that as a species they should not allow others to be as they choose to be…
Humans have learnt to think that there is only one right way, and most importantly that they are right, and that they must be right…
There is only one inevitable outcome from this, conflict at some point! You may have notice conflict in the world and in your life…
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Plus thinking this way lowers consciousness and does not raise it,
so we don’t get to evolve…
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Our differences are not to be hated, they are to be celebrated. Evolution does not need us to be right and others to be wrong… That will take care of itself.
If you are working on forcing others to be as you are, then you cannot be working on evolving yourself…
This is the virtue of selfishness… By working on yourself you are being the change you wish to see in the world…
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Taken from Success Made Simple:
Allow Others To Be As They Choose To Be
Video Notes – Some things to think about
I recommend you watch this video through once – there is a lot to think about in this short video. Then read the notes underneath the video for how best to use this video in conjunction with the training guide below to get the promised result.
Things to consider…
Watching that video on its own is worthless…
We are trained seemingly from birth to not allow and to want to interfere in our chosen way is ‘obviously’ the best way… Meaning everyone else is wrong… We are trained that this mindset helps us, unfortunately, it doesn’t it harms us… Allowing the world to be as it is, frees us from a self-imposed and hidden torture… Although this is cleverly disguised as weakness… In truth, it is great strength… But you have to see it for yourself to be willing to trust that it is right…
- Consider, do you currently allow others to be as they choose to be… Or consider if you interfere… Don’t judge yourself, just consider what you think and more importantly what you feel…
- Consider, do you know how to keep in your own hands the power to decide, or do you allow your ego to let this gift slip through your fingers…
- Consider, what it means to you to keep in your own hands the power to decide.
- Consider, do you see the benefit for yourself in allowing others to just be…
- Consider, how it makes you feel to not try and help, but to only help if you are asked… Observe the voice if it decides to speak, but look for the feeling of ease…
- Consider, of those you can help, those who are ready will make the effort and be worthy of your effort… Consider, how do you feel about this…
- Consider, waiting for someone to CLEARLY make an effort before you do anything to help them…
- Consider, allowing things to be the way they seem to want to be… How do you feel about this…
- Consider, in your judgement you may be ‘trying’ to fix things… Consider, is this helping you…
- Consider, observing others decisions without judging them so that it allows you to hone your skills…
- Consider, others serve us as an invaluable source of directional improvements… But if you choose to judge them, then you may misread what your observation was presenting you…
- Consider, is it your place to judge someone, when you do not know why they made their decision… How does this make you feel… Consider, never judging again and see if you can feel how free this makes you feel – freedom.
- Consider, looking out for the times you judge and using them as practice to teach you how to give up all judgement… Remember this does not make you weak, it makes you strong… Feel the truth in this if your ego is insisting on telling you that I’m wrong…
- Consider, when you notice you judged someone, see how it felt… Do not chastise yourself as this helps your ego… Instead, be grateful for noticing – then you will be given more to be grateful for. Consider, did it feel dirty to judge them…
- Consider, you have been trained since childhood to judge people, you now must learn to unlearn this…
- Consider, deciding that you will keep attempting to stop judging people and be grateful as you are removing this layer of crud from your mind…
- Consider, allowing yourself to get it wrong, and then consider how much more you will begin to like yourself for deciding to change… Remember this is being the change you want to see in the world, how does that make you feel…
- Consider, KNOWING that in every day, in every way, you are becoming better and better…
- Consider, how ALLOWING makes you feel good…
- Consider, how your whole goal in life is to feel good…
- Consider, if you feel bad then there is something that you are not allowing… Choose to allow it and you will instantly feel good… How does that make you feel…
- Consider, by putting up barriers to allowing yourself, you are putting up barriers to obtaining the life you desire…
We impose a prison around us with thoughts that have been trained into us by the world who was never taught how to think, just what to think. Freedom from this self-imposed torture is freedom indeed… But you have to be able to see it as freedom to be able to go on the journey to acquiring it.
Remember: The purpose of these videos is not to overwhelm you with information. They are there to guide you to the right way to think instead of the wrong way. You have been taught by schools to cram in information, however, your results will show you if you care to look at them that this does not work. So cramming will not work here. What will work is you disassembling your thoughts and almost effortlessly constructing new ways to think.
*** Please let me know if this proves helpful ***
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How does all this make you feel…
Allowing others to be as they want to be… Can we actually do that… Have we evolved far enough yet… How many more need to die before we evolve…
Something to think about, but you can choose to not be part of the problem if you think you can… 
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The other thing to do today is to continue reading or listening to the first five chapters of Creating A Bug-Free Mind, you can get them here.
I’ll be back soon with the next Footstep video on a much lighter area of thinking… Which can produce some amazing rewards…
If you would like to know more about these videos and how the way it’s being taught is exactly the way Ben Franklin explained to do it in his autobiography, then click here to watch a video which explains it all.
Best wishes,
Andy
P.S. Never forget your mind is like a pond and your thoughts are the water in the pond… All thoughts are connected like water is connected.
The ONLY WAY to make the water in your pond clear again is by cleaning all the water in an all-encompassing way…
Remember what I’ve said to you before… If you want to raise and maintain your level of consciousness then you either regularly re-read and keep re-reading these Footsteps, or you begin the Process.
I assure you that it is my full intention to get you to see the benefit of going through the full Process, and at some point, I will convince you…
Or you could just decide today to begin and see where that takes you…
Hi Andy, l
Yes Andy, I feel so good. What that not the religion nor the meditation didn’t bring to me after so many years. In a few months, your teachings, your everyday training have saved my life. From now on, I can choose to feel good. I now know how and why. What’s a discovery, a relief or deliverance, an eternal gift, a happiness… I don’t have words to thank you. The whole world is in great need of you.
Long live.
Euchariste
Thank you 🙂
Hi Andy – I am loving your Footsteps and reading the first book. I have tried several times to email you and Tim for how to change my email address as I do not desire to miss even one of these. All have been returned so I would appreciate your advice ASAP as my old email address is closing at the end of this month. Kind regards and thank you, thank you, thank you for all your sharing. Steph
Hi Steph,
The best people to ask are the guys on the helpdesk. They will make sure you have them all. https://www.saltori.com/help
Best wishes,
Andy
Your discussions are so interesting, and so RIGHT when really thinks about them with an open mind. It is just a pity I cannot access your videos. When I play them they stop every few minutes and I have to wait for another minute or two before they start and that is after I have pressed the cursor a few times. Unfortunately I cannot afford to buy these. Thank you for all your valuable information. Go Well Sheila Elliott
Dear Andy,
I was struggling the past few days with just this issue. This footstep was incredibly powerful, and though I have the books and audio (and am on my second time through them), I suddenly actually understood what it feels like to allow, even though I thought I got it before. You are so right about repetition being essential to actually learning something. I am grateful for your work and the questions and comments others have posted here. Thanks again.
Hi Andy, me and my friend study your footsteps almost daily and get such inspiration…we would like to see this in other languages. Does that already exist?
Hi Loes,
Not yet. I still have some work I want to do and then I’ll be ready for all my work to be changed into other languages.
Best wishes,
Andy
Hi Andy,
It has been about 5 months (though its infinitesimally small compared to earth’s history ha ha ha…just joking)..I have stepped into your ideas. I am ‘trying’ to follow the no-mind process which is comparatively easier than 15 min of uninterrupted positive thinking. Generally speaking my natural tendency is to think of an utopian future for myself and my near and dear ones at least for 15 min rather than things that have already happened. Will that be counterproductive? But one thing that has not worked as I can definitely be sure of i.e. the law of attraction. No matter I tried in this area I failed.
Now it is certain that all this stuff will definitely take a while before I am able to see some real change. Until that point I am in constant struggle with my ego which is now at its peak performance I don’t know why. I wonder if my ego is conscious like a human and has come to know that it is under severe threat. It is ‘trying’ all its best it can to pull me into darkness. So that is where I now stand.
Andy, if you ever get ABFM translated into Chinese let me know I’d like my wife to read it.. she doesn’t ‘t read English well enough to get the abstracts from it.
Thanks for all your knowledge and teachings to enrich our lives
Bud-