People all over the world treat worrying as if it is just something we have to do as we are adults and we all worry… However, this is because they do not understand the true nature of worrying and the devastation it brings to our lives…
If they knew what worrying really was then they would treat it like the dis-ease it really is…
But first let me show you how worrying is very similar to cancer…
How Cancer kills a person is it kills by weight, growing inside someone until the cancerous organs weight effectively suffocates other organs and the person dies.
Well how worrying kills a persons dreams and desires is by weight… The worries grow inside someone until the worries outweigh the dreams and desires and effectively the weight of the worrying suffocates the persons ability to live their life and fulfil their dreams…
So the dreams die, and the worrying is allowed to live.
…And just in case you don’t remember, fulfilling our dreams and desires are what living is all about… In my opinion without them we are just existing, not living…
But all worrying is, is a man-made dis-ease that’s an illusion which we allow into our lives…
Basically our worries are not real…
When we learn the truth in this and our ego can no longer pull the veil in front of us, then once again we can dare to dream…
So worry is like a parasite that feeds on the very energy you need to live and create what you truly want from life!
…And that’s why NO dreams will ever be fulfilled in your life UNTIL you learn to eliminate this dangerous life-suffocating bug… For good!
One of the most sickening things I get to watch is the ‘WORRY-BUG’ literally eat a person alive!
People simply do not realise that they really can choose to not worry anymore, just as easily as they choose to worry now… Yes it’s a choice!
If you worry then you are currently unconsciously choosing to worry… All you have to do to stop is become aware of the unconscious choice… Then as if by magic your worries will begin to dissolve…
I know it sounds impossible, however, it happens to be true…
Plus what do you really have to lose in giving it a go?
After all you are investing your life in the attainment of a dream that probably will not happen while you are a worrier… So you really have virtually nothing to lose, and potentially everything to gain…
Have you ever watched someone you love worry themselves to the point where they get ill?
It’s not a nice experience. The amount of people I’ve see who’ve worried so much they couldn’t work and lost their jobs…
…Or go deeper and deeper into debt and yet…
…They cannot see what their worrying is doing to them.
They become almost like fishes in water. They are living in such a sea of worry, that it is their whole existence and so they can’t even notice it anymore. It gets so bad they don’t even stop to consider what it’s like to not worry anymore!
The ONLY way out is to become aware of the ‘worry bug’ and learn how it works so that you can prevent it from gaining any level of control.
Please understand I’m speaking from experience here.
Once upon a time I was someone who never worried… However, because I didn’t understand the nature of our minds and how they need regular good exercise to prevent them from going wrong… In 2008 I managed to let worrying into my life too…
This ‘worry bug’ is how I lost my first fortune.
You see, I’d made money from investing in real-estate… Then made a lot more money supplying a service in real-estate… Then made even more money teaching real-estate investment…
Then the signs of the credit crunch coming begun to come into view…
And like a lot of people, I allowed ‘lack thoughts’ to creep into my mind. And essentially I started worrying about what may or may not happen. This caused me to focus on the problem and not focus on the solution!
In retrospect it’s all clear and easy for me to see. But when you’re trapped inside the situation. It’s nearly impossible because worry clouds your judgement and suffocates your ability to solve problems!
Can you see how I was worrying, and society teaches us that worrying is ‘ok’, and ‘normal’… But worrying is not the ‘innocent little lamb’ of problems that society has made it out to be.
WORRY IS A LIFE KILLING DISEASE!
Yes, sure you can EXIST while ‘worrying’, you can eat, breathe and (occasionally) sleep…But you cannot truly live while worrying.
If you’re trapped in debt right now (and I say this as someone who was once many millions in debt, until someone made me bankrupt)… It’s impossible to get out of debt, until you stop worrying about it. It’s like being trapped in quicksand!
The more you worry and struggle, the faster you sink!
However… when you stop worrying… and you stop struggling… and you regain control over the power of your mind. Then you can simply observe the situation without reacting and without worrying about it.
You can then also learn to accept whatever is in your life and you can learn to surrender to whatever is to come… Whatever that may be… And yes that means, even if it is what you are worried about!
When you are free from worrying you can look for the smartest action you can take right now… And not worry about it being right or wrong…
This means you can now reach for that potential branch out of the quicksand… So you can gradually pull yourself to financial safety…
Because of the fact that you are no longer worried about being in debt, and not having enough money… As you thinking that way will not help, so you can choose to only think things which help…
If you’re in debt then this will probably sound impossible from your current position… However, it happens to be true despite what appears illogical from your current position.
The same is true in worrying about suffering ill health, or in worrying about your partner leaving you… Whatever we focus on becomes our reality…
So by removing the focus on debt, bad health and relationship breakdown completely from our minds…Instead we focus without effort on living and accepting and dealing with the situation…
So again whatever we focus on becomes our reality… Therefore we have no debt, are healthy and are in a great relationship…
By attaining the state of not worrying anymore, then you free yourself to remove from your life all the things which could be wrong with it.
I took away all worry and all that remained was the attainment of my dreams and desires…
So I then spent a few years in putting in place the foundation for my future life of success before I became rich again. I did this without a single worry… And without putting any effort at all into not worrying!
You really can do it too because it is a process! I am not some superhuman, even though from the outside looking in, it looks like I am at times… No, it is just I know how to structure my thinking to attain the result I wish to have… Anyone can learn to do this, if they wish to!
This is true power in life!
To be able to control your mind so worry will no longer suffocate your life… Is one of the most valuable gifts you could ever possess.
So whether you want to:
Get out of debt…
Create great financial success…
Manifest your perfect partner…
Attain perfect health…
You will NEVER … EVER… Be able to achieve those things until you have removed the ability to worry from your life… for good.
Think about it… How great would it feel to live the rest of your life and NEVER worry ever again…no matter what?
How amazing would that feel?
How much would you be able to accomplish now with all that new energy, now released and refocused on manifesting your desires – rather than creating more of the things you don’t want!
Your mind’s a VERY powerful thing. It can give you whatever you want. Or it can deliver you a nightmare situation…
Just because worrying is an illusion, your mind has the power to make it real… So you have to learn how to make sure you don’t switch that power on!
Unfortunately worry is what you’ve used to manifest all the bad stuff in your life so far… And unless you stop worrying, change your thinking to no longer worrying… Then worrying will manifest plenty more bad stuff for you until one day… You die, or worst you give up!
So how would you like to make a change and get rid of worrying forever?
Life is too short, and too hard to waste another moment of your life worrying about something which may never happen!
Best Wishes.
Andy.
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